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The year I was born.
Before a baby is born traites are passed on from parents to their children.Thi shows that the traites we touch from our parents effect our or influence our development and one other thing that can chance me or the way I was if my mother used teratogens like alchol. When I was born i could not say I remember alot and don't remember almost anyrthing. -
Trust vs Mistrust
As I was new born i had to see something that would make me trust the world, so what makes babies trust the world is their needs and their needs are wanted by when they cry.Thi is Eriksons Theory -
Oral stage
This is when we see babies try to put everything like when small babies look for milk. -
Autonomy versus shame and doubt.
When i was about eight or nine months old I started to walk. When we start by our first step that is when we start to have somehow body control on our self. -
When I was About two years old.
Harry Harlow tells us about his experiments, my mother told e a thing, I did that some how represented what he did. As when i was small mostly i used to stay near my grandmother, because my mother had to work. I felt my grandmother as the best person in life but whensomething used to happen that made me sador cry i used to want my mother inside of my grandmother.So my action here is some how could be called the sucure attachment, done by marry Ainsworth. -
When my mother left me with grandmther.
As children grow up you see they get used to there mithers more and more, as one day my mother had to leave with my dad to wedding and come on who would take a kid that makes nose and nothing else, as my mom and dad thought but some how they forgot something. That children are used to there fathers and mothers. As soon as my family left and I stayed wwith my aunts and my grandmother. I was so stressed and crying, that i could not stop.When my dad and mother came
I relaxed.anxious attachment. -
Anal stage
I remeber my mother telling me that the toilet is the place where to go from now on for your need. As she said no need for pampers anymore. -
Initiative vs Guilt
As when we moved to KSA, i had alot of questions to ask and i still remember them. I asked my dad why did we come here. He said for work usually. My shock question for them was in my birth day, when my Aaunts were there almost all my family member where i Turkey and my birthday was gonna be in KSA. I asked my dad, why is not the other family members here. His anwser was they cannot come. What i told him still makes me shocked. I told him did'nt you tell us we all are a family. -
Industry versus inferiority
When i first went to school was at age 7 kindergarden, I was just left in these bunch of kids who i felt, that i was left down as if they were the better than me but as time passed i saw that I was better in some other thnigs than others. Like i felt comfortable becasue i was better than evryone in class in reading others where better in diffrent things -
Identity vs role confusion
This is one of the main years for me becassue i start to find or look for a group that fits me best.Like what social people fit me best. -
Phallic stage
I started to understand that who where boys and girls and started to see how each a boys and girls ations cahnge. Like seeing my mother calling my mother sweety made me think in a different way and I might of asked my self why did he just call her that. -
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Intimacy vs isolation
When i was about thirteen or fifeteen -
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Generativity vs stagnation
As I worte this time frame becasue before i came to AISJ, somehow I had a way of looking to my life and my family but as i grew older I also knew that its not only what you can do education can do it. The ways i think for yesterday to today can change in someones mind and what happens to me is changing today and looking for tommorrow.I learned that from the time i started school in AISJ that, for me maybe in my mind i have learned alot but i know that i have mostly learned less than what i learn -
Jean Piaget
What I experince from time to time with my small kids is when ever you tell them to do somethig there first word is why. I remember a small kid came to oue house and as usaual he was making sound draw on walls. As i asked him to stop i got the awnser why, I tried to expalin and he again asked why. I just had to take the pencil away from him -
Moral Development
As i went to Turkey i went to a party with freinds, they got drunk as i thught of if i got drunk also how would we go home and what would happen to us.This is preconventional.As i rememeber this thing I always remember what my dad and mom told me, that never choose the wrong way even if others choose to do it.Conventional -
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Integrity vs despair
As you pass from age to age you ask your self if you have done the right thing or not. Most people would use or have the idea yes, why because they do not want to die with the word Icame as nothing and am leaving as nothing.What I think about my self is, I have done alot of good stuff but I don't think I have the right to say accomplished alot of things yet. -
I fell in love but she just died
I did not marry all becasue of the day when i found her in her house laying on the floor waiting for help after hours, i found her she was still breathing I took her to the hospital and they could not safe her. She had fainted and fell from second floor and die. -
As I finished my University at KOC.
I have been stidying medicine and finished it. I started to take a salary that hardly enoguh but better than nothing. As I already think of not marrying because of my GF death after years I still have the scars. -
As I became a better Doctor
As I did my Phd and Masters and at least I started to work at Acibadem Hospitsal based on brain and got a salary that was about 25.000 thousand lira. -
I leave Doctoring when I was about 50 years old
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I wanna have a world tour. Moral Development
I go in a world your by my own self.I just look back to my past and see if i have done the right choices but I see that I have lived the life I want but maybe could of had a better one maybe getting married would be the thing I would of thoght. -
I have become an old man.
Almost lost every thing I have and i am dissapair becasue I came as nothing and leave as nothing.What i know is that I can say I have learned almost everything in the world but when I give my last breath I have learned that I learned nothing. We try to look more to religion or something that makes us happy because we had no time in the past just left it to the future as future comes we send it our death -
I die as the age my fathers grandfather dies and the day I was born
As I gave my last breath in life, I will just cry for one thing the time I wasted here.
