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My Background
- I was born in Newport Beach California
- My parent are Victoria Krystal Wong and Clement Kwokmen Wong
- I was born into a Spanish and Chinese culture
- I had 1 sister who was born 3 years later in 02/20/2009
- I lived with my grandparents at the beginning of my life because my dad was in Afghanistan. As a result developed close bonds with my uncles and my mom's side of the family. as a result
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0-5 Years
Piaget (Sensorimotor Stage):
- Experiencing the world through touching, grasping, looking, mouthing, etc.
- Has not developed object permanence
- Has Stranger Anxiety Kholberg (Pre-conventional Morality)
- Stage 1: Punishment-Obedience Orientation
- Right and Wrong are defined by what the punishment is for Erikson
(Trust vs. Mistrust)
- Have to trust parents to take care of me
- If trust is established then Hope
(Autonomy vs. Shame)
- trying to be independent
- If won gains willpower -
I ate my first real food
I had eaten some pea soup from costco. This was the first real food I have ever eaten. -
I learned to walk
The first time I walked. It impacted my life by giving me some autonomy because I'm now able to traverse the house. -
I spoke for the first time
I took my first step in learning to speak. It not only gave me the desire to learn how to speak, but it also opened the road to communicating with my parents. -
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5-10 Years
Piaget (Preoperational):
- Represents things with words and images
- More use of intuition rather than logic
- Egocentric (can only see the world through their POV)
- Language development
- Animism Kholberg (Pre-conventional Morality)
- Stage 2: Instrumental Relativist Orientation
- Right and wrong are now also determined by the reward gained. Erik Erikson (Initiative vs. Guilt)
- trying to actively complete tasks and do things because they have to
- If won then the purpose is achieved -
Made my first friend
I made my first friend in kindergarten. It helped me build confidence and social skills. -
I moved to Point Loma
I moved to Point Loma from Northern California. This changed my atmosphere from a grandparent's house to a school setting and single-parent home. -
I went to the second grade
We moved again to La Mesa where I live now. I attended Riverview elementary and learned Mandarin and made many friends. -
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10-20 Years
Piaget (Concrete Operational)
- Thinking logically
- Performing arithmetic operations
- Understands conservation
- Able to perform mathematical transformations Kholberg (Conventional Morality)
Stage 3: Good Boy-Nice Girl Orientation
Stage 4: Law and Order Orientation
Wants to uphold and preserve the law Erikson
(Industry vs. Inferiority)
- Wants to become good at school and other tasks
- If won then competency
(EgoIdentity vs. Confusion)
- trying to find an identity
- If won then fidelity -
I went to middle school
I am now expected to get straight A's. The pressure and difficulty have increased. I am also starting to get into sports. -
I went to high school
I started to really search for my identity. However, I felt depressed because of the pandemic, which stalled it a little. I also didn't make that many friends because everyone was social distancing. -
I'm off to college (Oxford)
I am now fully independent and away from my parents. Now have much more responsibilities and I also have to start caring for myself more because my body wasn't as athletic as it was in high school. -
Period: to
20-30 Years
Piaget (Formal Operational)
- Abstract reasoning
- Complex logic
- More mature reasoning Kohlberg (Post-Conventional Morality)
- Stage 6: Universal Ethical Principle Orientation
Morality is based on beliefs that transcend mutual benefit
- stage 5: Social Contract Orientation
Morally right and legally right are not the same thing Erikson
(Intimacy vs. Isolation)
- forming mature relationships with others
- If won then love stage 5: Social Contract Orientation -
I have a fiance
I started dating Clare a year ago and we really hit it off. We are going to be married soon. This showed me how to care for a long time relationship. -
I made my first million in trading
I had made 1.2 million in trading stocks and reinvested it in bonds. This allowed me to support my upcoming family. It also showed me that money wasn't as important as a family because you can always earn more. -
Clare cheated on me
I found that Clare had been cheating on me with a guy named Jamal. I was devastated and kicked her out of the house the very same day. I also cut her off the credit card, house, car, and everything else. -
Period: to
30-40 Years
Piaget (Formal Operational)
- Abstract reasoning
- Complex logic
- More mature reasoning Kohlberg (Post-Conventional Morality)
- Stage 6: Universal Ethical Principle Orientation
Morality is based on beliefs that transcend mutual benefit
- stage 5: Social Contract Orientation
Morally right and legally right are not the same thing Erikson
(Intimacy vs. Isolation)
- forming mature relationships with others
- If won then love stage 5: Social Contract Orientation -
I got a dog
The dog helped serve my emotional needs, acting as a friend. He helped me recover from my depression as well and also kept me entertained. -
I feel into depression
I shut myself off from the world and binged tv shows and movies. This continued for a year, then I started working out again and eating right and I cured my depression. -
I bought a lithium mining company
With all the money I had made selling stocks full-time, I bought a small lithium mining company called Mammoth mining. I started living in my new office and on-site every day. I started making much more money than I had ever thought. This allowed me to anything I wanted now. -
Period: to
40-50 Years
Piaget (Formal Operational)
- Abstract reasoning
- Complex logic
- More mature reasoning Kohlberg (Post-Conventional Morality)
- Stage 6: Universal Ethical Principle Orientation
Morality is based on beliefs that transcend mutual benefit
- stage 5: Social Contract Orientation
Morally right and legally right are not the same thing Erikson (Generativity vs. Stagnation)
-Has high autonomy
-Cares for the next generation
-Has the ability to change carrier and life
-If won then develops care -
Period: to
50-60 Years
Piaget (Formal Operational)
- Abstract reasoning
- Complex logic
- More mature reasoning Kohlberg (Post-Conventional Morality)
- Stage 6: Universal Ethical Principle Orientation
Morality is based on beliefs that transcend mutual benefit
- stage 5: Social Contract Orientation
Morally right and legally right are not the same thing Erikson (Generativity vs. Stagnation)
-Has high autonomy
-Cares for the next generation
-Has the ability to change carrier and life
-If won then develops care -
My dog was killed
I was walking my dog and a teenager lost control of his car. He hit me and my dog; the dog died instantly but I was rushed to the hospital. I survived but was left with retrograde amnesia. -
Stepped down from CEO
I stepped down from CEO of the lithium mining company to recover and be reminded of my life. I felt freed from all my past failures and started a new life. -
I got married
I started dating Britney 2 years ago and now we got married. I now have a companion to help me through life. It also reinstalled my trust in women. -
Period: to
60-70 Years
Piaget (Formal Operational)
- Abstract reasoning
- Complex logic
- More mature reasoning Kohlberg (Post-Conventional Morality)
- Stage 6: Universal Ethical Principle Orientation
Morality is based on beliefs that transcend mutual benefit
- stage 5: Social Contract Orientation
Morally right and legally right are not the same thing Erikson (Generativity vs. Stagnation)
-Has high autonomy
-Cares for the next generation
-Has the ability to change carrier and life
-If won then develops care -
We adopted kids
We adopted a girl named Sophia (7) and a boy named James (9). We cared for them and gave them all they needed. I felt happy and proud to have them as my kids. -
My parents died
My parents who were living with me passed in their sleep. I was extremely sad for months but I thought they went to a better place. Now Britney is the only family I have now. -
Brittney Died
After almost 20 years of marriage, Britteney died from stomach cancer. hundred people showed up to the funeral. The kids took it very hard. It made me stronger because now I had to be stronger for the kids. -
Period: to
70-80 Years
Piaget (Formal Operational)
- Abstract reasoning
- Complex logic
- More mature reasoning Kohlberg (Post-Conventional Morality)
- Stage 6: Universal Ethical Principle Orientation
Morality is based on beliefs that transcend mutual benefit
- stage 5: Social Contract Orientation
Morally right and legally right are not the same thing Erikson
(integrity vs. despair)
- Questions life decisions
- Cant change life direction
- If won then be proud of life, if not regrets life decisions -
spent 2 years in Thailand
After the death of Britney, I decide to live a nomadic lifestyle in Thailand with the local villagers. It decompressed me and I was able to get over Britney's death completely -
I went to James's wedding
Britney would have loved to see her little boy grow up. I'm just happy I could see the boy I raised fill in the former generation's shoes. -
I move in with my son
My son (29 years old) begins to take care of me because my bladder has gotten weak, and my eyesight is declining. He has a wife and 2 kids (ben and tony). -
Period: to
80-90 Years
Piaget (Formal Operational)
- Abstract reasoning
- Complex logic
- More mature reasoning Kohlberg (Post-Conventional Morality)
- Stage 6: Universal Ethical Principle Orientation
Morality is based on beliefs that transcend mutual benefit
- stage 5: Social Contract Orientation
Morally right and legally right are not the same thing Erikson
(integrity vs. despair)
- Questions life decisions
- Cant change life direction
- If won then be proud of life, if not regrets life decisions -
I finalized my will
After looking back on my life I begin to notice life is short and one needs to prepare for themselves for all circumstances. I specified in my will that everything that I owned will be given to my kids equally, however, they will be required to donate half of their share to a reputable charity. (making it their donation to society) -
I began actively practicing Catholicism
I have always been a Catholic, however, I wasn't very devoted. With my life coming to an end I find new hope in religion. This helps me to be positive and look forward in life. -
My death
I passed out in my sleep, without feeling any pain. I was burned and my ashes were spread out at sea where my dad was. That is the end of my life... -
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95 Year Death Letter
I lived a long prosperous life. I have had many blessings and wonderful people who touched my heart. I want to be remembered as a loving Dad and Grandfather. A good Samaritan, and a generous person. I am most proud of my children James and Sophia. You were the light that lit up my soul. I am just ecstatic I had you in my life. One thing I do regret is not taking enough chances int the begging of my life where they would not hurt me as much, but it worked out perfectly in the end. Good Bye