Carly's Timeline of Jewish Growth

By cvalfer
  • I was born

    My twin sister and I were born 10 weeks early. This created a hiccup in my parents involvement in their synagogue. Until we were born my parents belong to a conservative synagogue where they were extremely active but when we were born so early and very sick my parents decided that they couldnt make such a commitment to that synaogogue and decided that when we were better they would join a Reform Synaoguge nearby.
  • We recieved our hebrew names

    My parents were not sure if my sister and I would survive, so moments after seeing us and having us rushed away to intensive care, my father ran to the synaogogue to meet with the Rabbi to make sure we had hebrew names just in case something would happen to us.
  • First Day at Jewish Preschool

    My parents decided that sending us to Jewish preschool rather than regular preschool was an interesting choice since my parents strongly believed in public school . They felt we would be given more individual attention and would have a greater opportunity to spend time at the synagogue.
  • First Day of Sunday School

    My parents insisted that as soon as we were 5 years old that we begin Sunday School (in Kindergarten). My family had become very active in the synagogue and my parents felt strongly that this would reaffirm their commitment.
  • Consecration

    This was the last Jewish milestone that my father was apart of. I remember him sitting in the front row with a huge smile on his face as Jackie as I sang the Aleph Bet Song.
  • My father passed away

    Belonging to such a caring and supportive community was very important at this time as my fathers death was very sudden. The community really took us in and took care of us throughout this incredibly difficult time.
  • Start of my Hebrew School Experience

    This was the year that we would now go to Sunday School and Hebrew School. I was so excited to be able to go to the synaogogue two days of week to learn.
  • Started my Jewish Summer Camp Experience at OSRUI

    I would not be the way I am if not for my experience at OSRUI. I spent every summer there from 2001-2011 then I returned for summer 2013. OSRU transformed my Jewish Beliefs to truly be my own beliefs rather than what my family believe. I grew not only religiously and spiritually but also socially and emotionally.
  • Became a Machonik in the Religious School

    This was the first leadership role that I took on in synaoggue life. I had waited all my life to be a machonik in the religious school. I loved every minute of it. This experience is when I learned how much I loved younger children and how much I loved being in a classroom.
  • My B'not Mitzvah with my twin sister

    Studying for my Bat Mitzvah with my sister was an interesting experience, one in which I thrived. This is where I really learned that hebrew and prayer came easily to me and that I loved being on the Bimah. This was when I decided that I should become a Rabbi.
  • Attended my first NFTY Event

    I really didnt know what to expect from my first NFTY event. I went to Winter Kallah without knowing anyone. It was an interesting experience and one in which showed me how much I loved being among my peers in a religious setting.
  • 10th Grade Hebrew High School Trip to New York

    This was a transformative experience as my 10th grade Hebrew High School Class ventured to NYC where we went to Ellis Island, visited that tenament aparemtns, experienced Shabbat at Bnai Jeshurn and really had the opportunity to bond as a class community.
  • Confirmation- 10th Grade

    10th grade confirmation at my synaogogue was a very big deal. It was the first time that we lead a service as a class community since before our Bnai Mitzvah experience. I was chosen to give the Dvar Torah. This was when I realized that I loved giving Divirei Torah.
  • Became President of my synaogogue Youth Group

    I had been involved in my synagogue youth group since the first day of Freshman year. It was quite an honor to be elected President and one that I took very seriously. I learned that being a leader amongst my peers was not as easy as I thought it would be.
  • Graduated from Hebrew High School

    The moment had come when the Rabbi would give us the Priestly Blessing and a benediction as we would now be leaving this synagogue community and going off to college. It was a moment in which I will remember for the rest of my life.
  • Started my experience as a Jewish Studies Major at Indiana University Bloomington

    I decided that I would be a Jewish Studies Major at Indiana University Bloomington. I met people who believed what I believed and were just as passionate about it as I was. It was like being at camp only with school. I loved every minute of it.
  • Became the Freshman Chair on HIllel Board

    I had been active at Hillel from the word GO. I loved spending time at HIllel and participating in the events. I was so excited when I was elected to HIllel Board and was especially excited to be able to plan programs for the Freshman to experience how great Hillel was.
  • Became Vice President of the Jewish Studies Student Association

    I knew that I wasnted to take a more active role in the Jewish Studies Department outside of coursework. I was shocked when my name appeared on the ballot for the JSSA Board. I was thrilled when I was elected. I enjoyed having the opportunity to take an active role in the Jewish Studies Department outside of my coursework and to be able to leave a small mark on it.
  • Was accepted to Rabbinical School at HUC JIR

    I felt as though I had worked my entire young adult life to be accepted into Rabbinical School at HUC-JIR. It was all I ever wanted. I decided to defer my year in israel so that I could work a year after graduating and earn some money.
  • Graduated with a BA in Jewish Studies from Indiana University

    I was so excited to earn my BA from Indiana University in Jewish Studies. I learned so much and valued having the opportunity to study Hebrew, Jewish History and Philosophy in a non-religious setting.
  • Left for Israel for the Year In israel Experience at HUC-JIR

    Spending 11 months in Israel at HUC-JIR in the Rabbinical Program was a life changing experience. I met people who would become my colleagues and who thought about the future of the Jewish People as I did. I loved living and learning in Israel.
  • Decided to leave Rabbinical School

    My decision to leave Rabbinical School was one of introspection and reflection. After a year and a half of Rabbinical School I decided that my place in the scheme of my Jewish Professional Life was not meant to be from the pulpit but rather one educating the future of our people. This was the hardest decision I have ever made as I had thought that becoming a Rabbi was my lifes goal.
  • Began at Hebrew College

    I was thrilled to being my Master of Jewish Education program at Hebrew College. I felt that by joining this community that I had found a great fit in continuing my education and helping me to become a great Jewish educator.
  • Began my job at Youth Group Advisor/ 5th Grade Teacher/ Educational Intern at TBI

    I feel very blessed to be able to work at Temple Beth Israel under Lori Sagarin. She is not only a world class Jewish Educator but also an incredible mentor. I have learned so much from here in the last year and continue to learn as I grow in my many roles at TBI.