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5.1a: Child Attachment
During this age I've displayed signs of being a Securely Attached Child. My mom was a stay at home mom, me bing the youngest out of three kids I got the most attention. Asking my mom how i acted when i was young she mentioned, when she used to sit me down, i would srat crying because i couldnt see her, when i started walking i was constantly around her, i was so bad event o the point when my mom was using the bathroom i was with her. -
5.3: Gender
All my life I knew i was a girl, even when i was a toddler. As a toddler the only thing i really struggled with was my expression. My sister is one of the perfect girly girls while i was more of a tom boy who would go barefooted along with basketball shorts and a shirt. My parents along with my family instisted that I am required to keep myself up. To the point where my mom would pick out my clothes and make sure i put THOSE on instead of what i wanted -
5.2: Identity
Growing up, my parents were not one of those parents who inflected their wants on me. They wanted what made me happy. Due to this I would say i have Identity Diffusion. I have not undergo anything or made a commitment. For example, my mpom believes in stay at home moms, and knew i had dreams of going to a University, when my mom found out she didnt really influence her belif on stay at home mom she just wanted what majes me happy -
5:1b: Adult Attachment
Since having attachment with my mom, as I've grown older I can see myself getting overly attached to other people. I would put myself in the Anxious Attachment ways, I am currently in an relationship and is constantly with my boyfriend 24/7,With Antoine around another girl i can get jealous and possessive. My biggest issues with this kind of attachment is that when Antoine wants to go somewhere where i cant, i start crying and getting all emotional because there no way i can get his touch -
5.3b: Gender
Now i am more of a girl that wears what makes her conformable without caring what people think. During high school and the leading on to middle of my current sophomore year, i struggle with the identity of being bisexual. Right now i publicly identify myself as straight, i am with a man name Antoine who we just celebrate a year together. He is the only one who knows about my identity and accept me.