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birth
i was born which made me the person i am today -
first steps
initiative vs guilt, start to feel control and power because i can now talk and walk -
starts to speak
i started to talk full words making me learn more -
made cheer
i make the cheer team in high school which helpe me become a better person -
got drivers license
started driving which made me feel a little more responsible and powerful -
goes to college
attends The University Of Texas in Austin, industry vs inferiority i start to feel like i succeeded -
graduate college
class of 2021, feel like i have succeeded -
has first kid
gives me pride and a reason to become a better person -
wedding
gets married, i am now ready to start a family, intamacy vs isolation, i am growing in relationships -
join SVU
starts working with Special Victims Unit, starting to become real adult and enter real world -
buys house
buys my first house, feels more responsible -
buy a car
buys a BMW, intamacy vs isolation, good family making good money, stable -
husband loses job
puts us in unstable state making life harder -
little sister dies
puts me in a depressed stage, start to think more about other people -
child graduates high school
child goes to college, feel like i raised child right, generativity vs stagnation -
promoted
become Captain of SVU, start making more money for family -
move to California
buys a house in San Diego, want to start all over with everything happening -
grand child is born
gives me satisfaction that i have raised a good family, generativity vs stagnation -
retire
i retire from SVU, decided its time for me to go but i had a good run -
start charity event for cancer paitents
collecting money for people with cancer who cant afford the treatments, generativity vs stagnation, i feel better about myself -
husband gets cancer
makes me think more about the people i take for granted -
grand child attends college
feel proud that my child had a child that succeeded -
husband cured from cancer
husband is cancer free, brings joy to my life, integerity vs despair, i feel like my life has been a success, dont really have any regrets -
child gets a divorce
i feel a little of regret because i feel like i did something wrong in raising my child to make them not choose the right spouse, ego integerity vs despair, i am feeling regret because of the divorce -
grand child gets a job and starts a life
makes me feel proud that my child has a good and stable life and is doing these on her own -
husband dies
depression falls on me as my life and family start to vanish -
i die
ego integerity vs despair, i look back and feel proud for what i did in my life and what i accomplished