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Hernando at stage two of Erikson's Timeline.
Hernando is a two year old who was born with no toes. He never understood why his mother never let him run around without shoes in front of other people. He didn't see himself as different, even when his mother did. Erikson's stage two is when a child distinguishes himself from others. They should be able to make some choices independently to build self confidence. When a child is punished too harshly or overly restrained, self doubt and shame start to develop within the child. -
Hernando at stage six of Erikson's Timeline
Hernando at age 39 finally meets Phyllis, the love of his life. They have been friends for many years. They have decided to take their relationship to the next level and get married. They were happily married 45 years. In stage six of Erikson's Theory adults make a choice to commit to another adult. They open themselves emotionally to that person. When adults aren't willing to make that commitment they tend to isolate themselves without the closeness of an intimate relationship. -
Hernando at stage 8 in Erikson's Timeline
Hernando is 84 and lives with his daughter and grandchildren. His wife died in 2012. He's recently found out his health is declining rapidly and has the beginnings of dementia. He is happy to be around his family for his last days. He looks back on his life and is happy with his memories, there's no regret. Stage 8 in Erikson;s Theory is when a person can look back on life with acceptance and gratitude. If this doesn't happen the person is full of regret and despair.
