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conception
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Life
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Zygote
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Embryo
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Fetus
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Birth
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Discovering the world
During this time I was at the Sensory motor stage of my development, for I experienced the world only through my senses. I would try to grab everything, and anything I could get my hands on would straight to my mouth. I also started to develop my shcemata, and adding new categories into it. -
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Preconvetional Stage
I would always make sure to brush my teath before I slept to avoid not getting a cookie with my breakfast. So this shows that I was in Kohlberge's perconventional stage because I would make my decisions to avoid punishment. -
Crying to get care
During this time I must have developed the sense of trust, because everytime I cried I found someone there to take care of me. -
Reflex Development
During this time I started to develop numerous reflexs such as: Rooting Reflex, for my mother told me that at about this time I started to turn my head towards the area of my cheek that was stroked. Sucking Reflex, at that time anything given to me would be put in my mouth. Grasping Reflex, at that time I started to grasp anything that was put on the palm of my hand. -
Oral stage
I started to suck objects that were put in my hand, and so the sucking reflex was evident at this time -
Starting to roll over
My mother told me that at about this time I was able to roll over on the bed -
Sittng up straight for the first time without support
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Crawling
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Starting to stand
I was able to grab pieces of furniture and stand -
Strarting to walk alone
I was able to start walking on my own without any support -
Secure attachment theory
When I was an infant my mom told me that I would always cry when she and my dad left the house, and sometimes I would stay up waiting for them to come back. -
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Preoperational Stage
I started to learn how to speak and communicate with others, for my mother showed me a video of me trying to have a conversation with my grandfather, and I was basically trying to explain to him why my toy was so special. I also stopped reacting to peak a boo so much, which means that I developed object permenance. -
Potty Trained
During this time my mom started potty training me, and she succeeded. I was so happy and felt so independant that I longer have to depend on someone when going to the bathroom. So therefore I was going through the Anal Stage of Development -
Need of command
According to my mother I started to say NO to many requests from people to seek control over my own self, so evidently I was in the Autonomy V. Shame and doubt stage. -
Phallic Stage-Realizing that I am a boy!
During this time, around the age of three I started to see the differences between the genders and which gender I belonged too. I also started to compete with my father for my moms love. During this stage I also developed feelings for a girl I liked in school. -
Why?...Why?...Why?
According to my mother I stopped saying NO a lot, and started to ask WHY? I would bore my parents with numerous questions, and everytime they gave me an answer I asked WHY? They always tried to answer everything so I was encouraged by that, and so I became comfotable with asking questions in the future. So this shows that at this certain time I was in the intiavtive versus guilt stage of my development -
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Latency Stage
This was the time when everything was calm, it was a time of low psychosexual activity. It was during my first years at school, and at this stage I started to make friends, and find some hobbies. I found that I loved finger painting, and playing volley ball. -
First Day Of School
This was the first time I got evaluated for something I did, and generally I got positive feedback from my teachers, so I would compete with my other classmates on becoming the best for the rest of my school years. I developed a sense of competion. -
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Concrete Operations
While playing with playdough I noticed that it's mass is alawys the same, only the shape was changing, so I understood the concept of conservation. I also started to think more logically about characteristics of objects. -
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Convetional Stage
I would avoid lying because liers were considered as bad kids, and liers were not invited to parties, so I deeply feared being called a bad kid and not getting invited to parties. So I was in the convetional Stage because My decisions were based on how others would judge me. -
Breaking my hand
Breaking my hand showed that at the time I didn't quite reach the stage in my development, where I was able to abstract think, and evaluate risks very well, for I was trying to act cool and jump heroically off a golf cart, sadly I did, but I ended up breaking my hand. -
Found a love in video games
My top priority, and what I cared about the most was playing awesome video games -
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Formal Operations
I was able to think about abstract things like religion, I was able to compare other religons to my religion, and understand the diffrences. I also started to develop my own theories whether aliens are real or not, for I thought that we have this vast world of unknown why can't there be aliens from one of the billion of other planets. So I was at the stage where I was able to address complex ideas and try to evaluate and understand them. -
Passing Puberty
Strating an important new stage of development in life -
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Gential Stage
This is an ongoing stage when everything becomes focused upon sexual pleasure, it typically occurs after puberty. During my gential I graduated from school, and university, I also got married and had a few kids -
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I Found my group, I Found my identity!
During high School I fortunately found a good group of friends that I associated with, I felt comfortable in that group and saw my self as individual of that group, so I didn't suffer from an identity crisis, and I developed a sense of self. So during this time I was at the Identity versus Role Confusion stage in my development. -
First Day of High School
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Joining the singing club
This was a club where I felt I belonged. I loved to sing, and my wonderful teacher encouraged me to do so. -
High School Graduation
Leaving an important factor of my development -
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Postconventional Stage
At this point I would be able to make descisions based on purely my own morals and way of thinking without thinking of the consequeces or how spciety might view me. So for example I know not steal anything from anyone not because I'm afraid of punishment or my reputation, but because I feel that it is morally wrong to take what doesn't belong to you. -
First day of university
Starting a new chapter in my life, that will be vital to my independenat development -
University Graduation
Graduated with a degree in law -
I Chose to manage my life well
During my young adult stages I was at the start of my career, it was very time consuming, but I was able to manage to spend time on work, family, and friends. So During this period of my life I was at the Intemaacy versus Isolation stage of my Development. -
Invested in Hana Marie's fashion brand
This was an important descision I had to make in my life, because it would show how well of a lawyer and a descision maker I am. -
Married!
I got married to the girl of my dreams, Adriana Lima. -
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Chosing my life's path
By this time I want to work for a successful law firm and build my name so that one day I can open up my own Law firm. In-order for that to happen I was required to live in Malaysia, so I ultered my lifestyle to live in Malaysia just so I could follow my dream. So at this particular time I was at the generativity versus stagnation stage of my Development -
Having my first kid, It's a BOY!
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Having my second kid, It's a GIRL!
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Going by my morals only
Being a lawyer I stood up for a man that seemed guilty to everyone. My co-workers advised me not to take his case, but regardless I defeneded him because I felt a sudden moral obligation to help him, because I had a hunch he was innoccent. Eventually I won the case, proving his innocence. This is example proves that I was in the postconvetional stage of my Development. -
Opening my very own law firm
I have finally achieved my life long dream by folllowing the path I set out for myself in my mind -
When My wife died
The day my wife died was the day I reflected back on my life to see if it had any meaning, and after that I felt happy. I realized that I married the woman of my dreams, and we have 2 beautiful and healthy children that went to college, and that I had my dream of opeing a law firm. So I was happy from that point and chose to give wisdom to all. So I was at the intergrity versus dispair stage of my life. -
Death
It was a sad day for my family, I passed away doing something I loved. I was skydiving when it all ended, I suffered a heart attack during my fall , but it was worth it, for it was on my bucket list for such a long time, and i'm gland I ended it that way, plus my death would an awesome story for the local news. This event marked the end of my development.
