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  Turned to the Soviet Union for economic and millitary help
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  Born with just her mother
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  Mariam leaves the kolba to trael to Herat
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  She marries him in a forced marriage
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  Loses his leg in a land mine while fighting against the Soviets
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  they return to the kolba