Transition Timeline

  • 1st considered ‘what if I was a girl instead?’

  • Period: to

    Homophobic high school experience

  • Period: to

    Skirts & long socks at cons and around friends

  • Period: to

    Gender questioning with minimal action

  • Period: to

    Gender questioning as an adult

  • Started therapist search list

  • Period: to

    Therapy Search

  • Contacted My Therapist

  • 1st Therapy Appointment

  • Started Endo List

  • Period: to

    T-Blocking (only)

  • 1st Fenway Appointment

  • MGH consult

  • Started Spironolactone

  • Started Estradiol 2mg

  • Period: to

    Hormone Replacement Therapy

  • Switched to Finasteride

  • Leggings and shorts @ Pax East

  • Femme clothes around family

  • Looked at wigs online

  • Ordered wigs online

  • Wearing a Wig w/Family

  • Started searching for hair removal

  • Period: to

    Hair Removal

  • Began email outreach on hair removal

  • 1st consultation - Milan Laser

  • Started Spironolactone

  • Contacted Linda DeFruscio @ A&A

  • Period: to

    Attempting to verify coverage w/Cigna

  • Started taking Estradiol correctly

  • 1st - Presenting Femme w/Friends

    Wig, Dress, Voice, Name (Naomi?), Pronouns
  • Resumed Spironolactone @ 100mg

  • 1st email from Bonnie Minger @ Cigna

  • Increased Estradiol to 4mg

  • Period: to

    1st Prior Approval

  • 1st Laser Appointment

  • Heels and gender questioning colors at a friend’s pride BBQ

  • 2nd Laser Appointment

  • 3rd Laser Appointment

  • Femme clothes around extended family

  • 4th Laser Appointment

  • 2nd Prior Approval submitted

  • Period: to

    2nd Prior Approval

  • 1st Claim Paid (for 2nd visit)

  • 1st Prior Approval

  • Started Progesterone

  • Femme clothes at party

  • Started Progesterone (and reduced Spironolactone)

  • 2nd Prior Approval Revised

  • 2nd Prior Approval Rejected

  • 2nd Claim Paid (for 3rd visit)

  • 5th Laser Appointment

  • 3rd Claim Paid (for 5th visit)

  • Confirmed DK policy lost laser in ‘23

  • Notice of DK policy corrected

  • 1st (only?) time crying in the shower

  • 4th Claim Paid (for 5th visit)

  • Confirmation of Prior Auth. Revision

  • Reduced Spironolactone to 50 mg

  • 6th Laser Appointment

  • Femme cosplay w/wig (at Pax East)

    Femme cosplay w/wig (at Pax East)
  • Presenting Femme (Wig, Dress, Voice, Name, Pronouns) w/Friends

    Presenting Femme (Wig, Dress, Voice, Name, Pronouns) w/Friends
  • 5th Claim Paid (for 4th visit)

  • 7th Laser Appointment

  • 6th Claim Paid

  • 3rd Prior Approval submitted

  • Period: to

    3rd Prior Approval

  • Trying on new femme clothes with family

    Trying on new femme clothes with family
  • Causing a baby to cry by taking off my wig

    Causing a baby to cry by taking off my wig
  • Clocking >10 years younger than my age (definitely related)

    Clocking >10 years younger than my age (definitely related)
  • Getting told I might want to consider a bralette to avoid weird looks

  • 1st time painting toenails since 1st in high school

    1st time painting toenails since 1st in high school
  • 3rd Prior Approval rejected

  • 1st full femme presentation leaving the house

    1st full femme presentation leaving the house
  • 1st Pride event

    1st Pride event
  • Clothes shopping with an AFAB neither family nor partner

    Clothes shopping with an AFAB neither family nor partner
  • 3rd Prior Approval revised

  • 1st time presenting formal femme

    1st time presenting formal femme
  • 8th Laser Appointment